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The Daily Life of a Family Volunteering at Neema Village
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Mama Iddi has been keeping her 12 year old abandoned granddaughter in her home where part of the wall had fallen in and she had hung an old tarp over the hole. There were large cracks in the back of the house and so many holes in the roof that she walked in mud inside the house when it rained. It was unsafe to say the least.
We had been out to visit Mama Iddi with some friends in August and were so saddened by her living conditions that we decided Neema, through the generosity of friends and the MAP program, could help.
We had planned at first to shore up the house, patch the cracks, put on a new tin roof and paint the house. But when our builders got started they realized none of the house was worth saving. So they bulldozed it and started from ground up. We took Mama Iddi and her granddaughter out yesterday to see the completed house for the first time. I realize this may not look like much to you but to this widow living in extreme poverty it is a mansion.

All the neighbors came out to help including this handsome young man. He said he remembered a bible class we had done at his house a few years ago. Emily Broadbent, look how he has grown!
After getting all the chickens together we loaded up the trailer and our car along with the squawking chickens, the chicken coop, volunteers and Mama Iddi with everything she owned in the world and drove to her new home. She had not seen it painted nor the inside of the house, so we were all pretty excited for her.
She looked around at the metal windows, the creamy yellow walls and the smooth cement floor and all she could say was Wow, Wow! I felt like we were on that TV show where they blindfold people and reveal their remodeled house and everyone cries!
After the Wows! were over, we prayed with her and asked God to bless the house and her family with peace and that no harm would come to her while she lived there. Then the builders and volunteers all gathered round and sang, “Mungu ni Pendo”, an old African song that means God is Love.

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I know this is hard to look at but they look like skeleton babies, don’t they? It is even hard to write that. Our hearts break for them and I wish we were there to hold them and keep them warm and safe and tell them they will be okay.
He was born at home and shortly after the birth the mom developed complications with the placenta. She died on the way to the hospital. I sigh with deep frustration each time this happens. Did you know that the biggest killers in Africa are all preventable; Malaria,Typhoid and Childbirth complications.
October 2018. Christopher came to Neema a few days ago. He was abandoned in the back of a taxi. His mother said she was going to get something and would be right back but never returned. He is assumed to be about two days old. He was taken to a hospital, where they named him and cared for him. Neema was then contacted. He is not very interested in the bottle right now, but we are trying. Please pray for him and his mother. If you would like to sponsor baby Chris while he is here we could certainly use your help. Sponsorships start at $30 per month.
We are continually asked what makes someone abandon a baby? We have had babies left on roadsides, on porches, in latrines, in a gravel pit, in a house alone, anywhere. You ask why? It’s a hard one to answer. We don’t usually try.I have been visiting with family for a few weeks and we have a pretty spirited granddaughter who loves to argue American politics. She says there is too much greed, corruption, hatred and a lack of respect for individual life in America. She is right, any is too much.
I cannot imagine the heartache this mother must have gone through before she put her baby down. We do tell our nannies this does not just happen in Africa, it happens in school bathrooms and dumpsters in America too. It is not an African problem, it is a heart problem. Many of these women are poor and desperate and feel they have no options. Thankfully our Neema Village MAP program is giving many women options today.
This sweet little 2 month old pictured above, lost his mom last night. Sylvia Pape, Angel, our Social Worker, and Mama Musa, our Director, drove out about an hour and half late yesterday afternoon to pick up baby Johanna. The house was already filled with mourners while the mother lay in the back room. This Maasai village was high up in the mountains with no clinics or hospitals and so hard to get to they probably had been unable to get her to the hospital in town. We will be trying to find a family member to keep him.
Newborn, Joshua above, is abandoned as well. His mother is a drug addict and abandoned him but then she was found and put into a drug help program. She ran away again and has not been found again. We are not sure what is the matter with his eyes but we think he has a problem. They are swollen and he will not open them.
Sweet baby girl Hosiana, lost her mother too. I love her name. It reminds me of “Hosana in the Highest” and how often we praise God for allowing us to do this work of saving babies in Africa. 
Upendo’s husband left her owing back rent, little food and a two year old handicap child. She was destitute when she came to talk with Mariya, our MAP director.
After talking with Mariya about what she could do to help herself and her baby, Upendo thought she could start a food business making mandazi (like a donut). We began to look for a small shop and found a great spot on a busy corner. But when we interviewed the neighbors they said we have a food business here, what we really need is an internet service.
Upendo had never used a computer so we hired a couple of university students to teach her for a month.
We love taking volunteers down to the shop to get a fresh juice, my favorite is orange, pineapple, mango. Yummy!
Now really, how cool is that! An Internet Cafe and Fresh Juice Bar comes to Arusha! Turning hopelessness into Hope. Love it!
July 16, 2018Gloria Leaves NeemaIt’s been another one of those days when you don’t know whether to laugh or cry. So you do both!Five years ago we got a call about a little girl who was found living in a shed where they had kept chickens and goats behind the house.
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Our second charity climb was a great success as Dr. David Vineyard, leader of the group, took Mariya Halapi, Emily Broadbent, Hayden Liebl, Tina McCormack and Dr. Jeff McCormack up to the roof of Africa to raise money for the Neema babies. You can still give on their behalf, just go to www.neemavillage.org and on the purpose line put “In honor of the Awesome Kili climbers.”
Our policy has been that Neema Village only takes in babies two and under. There are lots of orphanages that will take older children but Neema is the only home in the city limits of Arusha that takes only babies. But what could we do when Social Welfare called one evening and said, “The Police have just picked up a little twelve year old girl in a wheel chair begging on the street and we have no where to put her for the night. Can you take her?”
That was almost two months ago and Social Welfare still has no place to put her. Little Miss Personality Plus, Sophia, has scooted her way into our hearts and after meeting with Social Welfare this week, we think we will keep her. We have come up with a plan. It took three days in doctors offices to certify her handicap so we could get her into school. She had never been to school, cannot read or write so last Monday she started to school in the first grade. 
They took off over fields and through the banana groves trying to find the right house to pick up baby Lightnes whose mom had died. Emily Moe below telling baby Lightnes its going to be ok baby girl.
I love the “Mama Bear protecting the baby bear” picture of Lindsey Vineyard on their way out with the baby.
The next day we got a call about another baby needing help so we picked up baby Ivan. The mother had abandoned the baby and the father was not able to care for the baby. Ivan is beautifully sweet and precious.
Custom here will not allow a man to have a live in woman in the house so for now there seems to be no solution other than keep the baby at Neema until a family member can step up. Ivan is a smiley baby and doesn’t cry a lot. They said he was about three months old but Bekah thinks more like six months old.
These three new ones, Sophia, Lightnes and Ivan at Neema Village need sponsors. We have 55 babies along with our big kids living at Neema today and many of them do not have a sponsor. It costs us over $300 per month to keep a baby but you can begin with $30 a month. That pays for nanny care, food, formula, petrol, and utilities. It doesn’t pay for buildings or the MAP program. Only Tanzanians are paid a monthly salary at Neema Village.









